Episode 051: Initiation & Desire

This week Stephanie and Travis clarified the “body count” conversation. Is talking about the amount of people you've slept with necessary? Why as a culture do be deem certain professionals as asexual? Teachers and politicians are also sexual beings like the rest of us.

Since sex sells and Stephanie and Travis receive numerous inquires about how to communicate about sex, this episode focuses on just that. Similar to the five love languages, Stephanie discovered there are five sex initiation styles. What is spontaneous desire and what is responsive desire? How can understanding these in your relationship make initiating sex more successful.

Lastly, does orgasm have to be the goal of every time you have sex?

Podcast mentioned: ¿Quién Tú Eres? Podcast @plurawl Sex Therapist mentioned: Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy @drlaurenfogelmersy